The Sign Part 2
Here comes the 2nd part of Signs Description.
Yet again...before i start...
Cancer
The Expansive Heart
Cancer has so much to give. Truly, she's got a heart of gold. She also surprisingly outgoing and independent - and she's able to show the world what she's made of. In fact, she's definitely not the wall flower some astrologers make her out to be!! She's a cardinal sign - meaning, of course, that she secretly like to dominate. In other words, you wont find a cancer bowing to another sign. She regal. She knows how to turn things around to her advantage. Cancer has the world at her finger tips. How she chooses to use this awesome power depends on her.
Cancers World
Cancers also have incredible insight into dealing with the world. They know when to lay back and when to charge forward. Yes they can be sly and manipulative. These traits, though, will disappear as they get older and learn. Eventually, they will be able to somehow fit into society and adhere to its "strict" (to them) social demands.
At the same time, Cancers dont really like to march to the beat of the same drum as others. Though they are not as ridical as Aquarians, they do like to go against the grain. Strangely enough, however, Cancer likes a partner to fit into a traditional role. While Aquarians search out a mate who definitely can't be pegged into any one category, Cancer wants someone who will meet with the appreciation and approval of his family. Real respect from a Cancer is very hard to come by. It may seem as if he's made you his world, but unless he also wants to make you part of his family, you've got nothing coming. A Cancer will immediately settle down when he finds the one for him.
Maintaining Balance
Here's the key to a happy Cancer life: a regime that lets her be social when she feels like it or to stay at home and hide when she wants. Don't be fooled by gregarious Cancer. She likes her digs as much or more than she likes the bar and "out" life. In fact, tranquility is essential to the Crab. She'll do everything she can in order to maintain this relaxed and idealistic life vison.
Cordial Cancer
Also, Cancer are almost always cordial. They know how to deal with different types of people and how to make them feel comfortable and included. Compli,emts run freely from the mouths of Cancers. When they choose, they can be effectively politically correct. When they're out and about, they can come off as Fire signs because they're very good at striking up a conversation. They're also quite sexy and charismatic, and they have an exceptional flair for putting outfits together to show off their best assets.
Cancers are also great empathizers. They'll rarely pity someone for bad fortune - Cancer believes you should take charge of the situation and deal with it. They also have two strong, genuine shoulders to cry on. One thing you may notice about Cancer is that she'll tell you what she thinks, but she'll rarely lecture you about anything. Instead, she'll simply say the way things are, according to her. If you've done something wrong, Cance will be the first to tell you - but only if you ask for advice.
A Fine Romance
Somehow, you always get the feeling that Cancer is giving you compliments simply for the sake of it. You feel special for the moment until, suddenly, the flattery is being handed to the person next to you. How does he manage to always get away with it? Sometimes Cancer doesn't realise that people can see through the image he's created for himself - though this is of no concern. Cancer never suffers for it. Not many are likely to challange the Crab. Most people, with egos pumped up by Cancer, know that what they're told is not necessarily the truth - but they never seem to mind.
Family & Friends
It is also said that family life and home is very important to Cancers. This is indubitably true. All Cancers are, in some way, tied to family - whether it's their own (husband, wife, children) or immediate (parents, siblings). Marriage and children are essential to most Cancers, and security becomes just as important to Cancer as it is to Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo, and Scorpio.
All Cancers are nurturing, especially Cancer women, who is sexy and always has some kind of feminine quality. This especially comes out with the friends around her. She's like a mother hen, curious about gossip and new loves. In fact, she'll be a little offended if her friends dont keep her up to date on their possible new love interests. Cancer women absolutely has to know what's going on and what she can do to help keep the ball rolling. In other word, Cancer women loves having other "in love" couples to hang out with.
The Art Of Attraction
Most Cancers tend to see the world though rose coloured glasses. Although they can see many things of life clearly, Love doesnt happen to be one of them. This doesn't stop Cancer, however. Unlike many people, he usually finds what's he's looking for in a partner. Being wldly swept away is extrememly important to Cancer. He wants the romance of a lifetime, and he usually gets it.
Once Cancer falls in love, too, she tends to stay in love. She's good at keeping her mate - she knows just how to give him what he needs. Once she sees what she wants, she grabs on and doesnt give up so easily. She feels, therefore, she is. However, if she's jilted, it may also take her a long time to let go.
The Long Haul
Needless to say, Cancer makes a wonderful partner and parent. He dotes, and he's affectionate. He might even cook up a storm. He has lots of interesting friends from all walks of life. In a mate. he looks for security - both emotional and financially, though his feelings of the heart will always win out over stock holdings. He also wants a woman whom he can greatly respect, one he'll proudly to call his.
Cancers, early on in life, can have many flings and adventures. They're curious and experimental many times - they like to try it all out. A less evolved Cancer may settle down too soon for fear of being alone. More mature Cancers usually wait for "the one" and live very happy, fulfilled lives. Many times Cancer can be quite faithful (though Cancer men are less so), though if she feels she's not with her future hubby, she won't think twice about cheating or dating two, even three other guys at once.
He/She: The little Stuff Counts.
Cancer woman is impressed with worldly men, but she also likes her man to be simple in some way. She's attracted to men who calm her and who are generally tranquil. She'll go for a man who looks great in jeans but who also cleans up well in a moment's notice - should she have ot present him to the Queen. She likes a man who is sexy from the inside out, one who's discreet, not a poser, and certainly regal to those looking on him from the outside.
Cancer men also goes for sexy.Secretly, or for short periods of time, he may have relations with women who dress on the more suggestive side. Though he doesn't always admit it, Cancer men likes to be shocked and challanged. However, this is not usually the woman he chooses to marry. The woman who is to be Cancer Man's partner for life will almost certainly be the one he can take home and present to "MaMa" - A "Good Girl."
Pillow Talk: Signs In The Bedroom
A Cancer will never directly say he wants to go to bed. He'll hint and maybe even joke about it, but then he'll claim he was just kidding - even when he wasn't. If he's joking about it with you, chances are he'd jump at the chance if offered to him. Cancer like sex - or rather they like passionate sex. They feel their way through it. And they're versatile. One day, they'll want to go out for hours and the next be happy with a quick encounter.
The Secret Cancer Man
The Cancer man is a little confusing. He flirts continuously, never seeming to get enough of women - in fact, he doesn't know what he wants. But in truth, when Cancer man gets hold of his moods and grows up, he can be a wonderful mate. He's a great lover: attentive and sexual. If you want to have a fling with him, keep in mind that it may be short-lived. He'll show you all the attention in the world and make you feel like goddess, but he probably wont call again. More likely, he'll show up at your door when he's been jilted by some current main squeeze. And once his self-confidence returns, he'll disappear again.
The Secret Cancer Woman
Let Cancer women talk, and show her that you really understand her. She's looking for a connection - however flimsy. She'll fill in the gaps. She tends to go for a he-man, whether that means macho, sexy, dominant, or noble. She's pretty flexible on dates. Though she can dress to the nines, she'd also be up for a hayride or a water amusement park date, for example. Cancer also loves to just hang out in front of the television. She's a complete lover of lighting candles about the house and giving or getting massages.
Almost all Cancer women are also open-minded and New-Age oriented in some way. Seduce her by showing her you like the same spiritual books she likes or that you at least appreciate what she's interested in. She'll like you more for it. Cancer woman can also be touchy-feely, and she likes big hugs and 2 strong arms to make her feel protected.
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